Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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Sorry I've been missing for a few weeks. My husband and I were making an effort to salvage our marriage, but after two hours of counseling, he decided that he was done. That's 12.5 years per hour. I think he went to the counseling so that he wouldn't be "that guy," the one who looks like the a**hole who leaves his sick wife, especially to our adult children. There are some days when I'm fine, but there are others when I have to will myself to keep moving forward. I have a terminal illness and, admittedly, he used to do a lot for me, but now that the kids are older, they pick up a lot of the slack.
I want to find a way to be less hurt, but he broke this news to me 2 weeks before our 25th anniversary, out of the blue. Any suggestions?
When I was a child what I observed, particularly so with my parents (but with others as well) was that mom was the loving and, dad was the lovable, I never ever saw loving embraces between them.
Was your husband the lovable type only?
MC so he would look like he was trying it was A
joke. He was long checked out mentally, morally
And emotionally. The first time he was Called on
a behavior he was insulted And was done.
I hope you have a backup plan for your care, you
Are not the first on here like that. Some were sick,
Recent deaths, Have an autistic child(ren), some
women were pregnant. The stbx did not want to
stay and they often have Someone new waiting
for them to leave.
I went to therapy and attended divorce care multiple
Times to be with Others and to help myself with all
the grieving. I hope you have a good lawyer to watch
out for you And for your best interests. HUGS
I found out from our 22yo son today that my husband has joined an "online caregiver support group" because he accidentally sent my son a message meant for someone in his "support group." My son was put in the position of having to come over to show me this message, and, of course my husband tries to put it in his best light by saying, "I didn't tell him not to tell you," like that makes it ok!!
Our son will be home soon, so I have to try to get it together. You are all in my thoughts and prayers tonight. Sleep well. ❤