So ive been on this sight befor about me and my wife long story short i fought for her and she wants a divorce i agreed and i filled out the papers of the divorce we are agreeing on alot of things to make it easy as possiable for us and the kids  i dont want any court telling us how we can run are kids life and what we have to do. Cuz we know what best for them not a dumb judge... i font want the divorce but she does im hurt scared lost confussed big time. Im letting her controll all the shot i made alot of mistakes in the past but i couldnt fix them fast enough to stop the divorce. So i know she is seeing soneone else and masking her pain. I know it over and the tall tale sign is that. My mind and my emotions are not consuming me in imagine them togther what so ever im upset im mad sure but i dont dwell on it all day long. I love her i do mabey im just on the course that we can qork it out idk... so i sorta know it over between us but if i could fix it i would.. my question is that she told me she dont love me anymore ok that hurt.. she is masking her pain behind this guy and she not really showing any emotions im the one going threw it instead of around or masking it. Im dealing with it in the best way i know how.. talk alot.. i feel as in the furture nothing will come back to haunt me abiut the decesions i made cuz i delt with the divorce and loss properly i was there for my kids leting them have a good life.. what about her she hideing around every cornor to escape her real emtions and i feel in the furture she will be the one with the guilt etc of not hanfling properly and ahe might try to work thinga out with me or start over fresh idk.... i just want to know how it is whwn people hide and mask around other people and actually dont properly go threw it and deal with it do they have problems in furtire that will come up.. or are they just fine n the furture andnothing bothers them??