Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My husband left early last Saturday morning without a word to anyone. He left because he needed to spend time getting his head straight. He has became very emotionally abusive and is supposed to be getting it under control. By Tuesday morning he wanted to come back home. I said he needed to get fixed. He agreed. Well today (2 days later) he is back to yelling, screaming and he's done because he is fed up with me. Apparently that is why he left not his emotional issues. My kids and I have had a wonderful week and we have had peace. Wtihin two days he's at it again.
I know he needs to go but there are several factors- 1. I love him. 2. The kids love him. 3. If he is emotionally ill then he could be fixed so I should help him do that. 4. I am unemployed and unable to work with our disabled daughter.
Help give me strength you guys. I have to do this and I am just too damned weak.
Time to calm down. Try living apart for a while and see if he can gain his ground again.
Being a couple and having a disabled child is very difficult for both parties. Maybe he is just having a meltdown and needs a mental break.
Hugs