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so I posted about how I'm heart broken about my ex breaking up with me we were in a long distance relationship for 2 years he left 5 months ago and everyone told me not to contact him and to work on myself but what am I supposed to do when I already took the time to do that ? I found myself again and realized so much but I'm still shattered and wanting him back. I just want to prove to him that I've changed so I did something and got tickets to go see him which is probably a mistake and might end up hurting me even more but I need to take the chance and show him I'm the girl he fell in love with again. He told me he wanted to see me and then said I shouldn't have gotten the tickets. And he's still sexually attracted to me so I'm asking if anyone has had experience with this and knows if I have a chance to get him back?
If this is the case, I suggest you get some counseling asap.
That is WAY out of line.
Please find a therapist for yourself if you're having difficulties coping to the extent that you'd go to those kind of lengths
I clearly remember my breakup from my first love I dated from 16-21. It felt like the end of the world. I had over invested myself in this one person. It was awful. But, I moved on after the tears and years later I CLEARLY see we wouldn't have worked. We both had growing to do.
This will pass. But you cant hunt him down and club him over head
Let him go.