I have been a relationship for 2 years. I have three children from my previous marriage and one child on the way due in November with this recent relationship. My BF and I had issues in the past with him continuing to communicate with his ex. I thought we had gotten over the ex-situation. He had changed his phone number last year and made it seem to me that he no longer had contact with her after the number change. He kept telling me that the whole relationship thing with them was over. She lives in another state and they have been over about 5 years ago due to her cheating on him and bad treatment towards him. She kept telling him the child she had after she left the state was his but, turned out after 2 DNA test that it was not his child. He continued to stay in touch with her despite the DNA tests.
Anyhow, we moved in together last week and I found his phone bills and phone logs. I found out he was still talking to her this whole time. He constantly lied about it when I would ask him. Complete lies to my face. This whole time I been thinking things were great and he had finely rid of her he was still talking with her! Nonetheless when I am sitting here pregnant with his child, his own flesh and blood. I did confront him and he said they are just friends and there was nothing else other than that. But, I see it different. He would call and text her frequently and nonetheless on special holidays as well that were supposed to be just for us like xmas, new years eve, valentines day, our anniversary etc. He stopped talking to her in June when she called me and disrespected me, acting like a crazed ex girlfriend. I am angrier than chit right now! The whole thing now is the baby is due November, I just moved in so I have no money to move out. My kids are involved in the mix, so are his parents because this is their first grandchild.
He did apologize and admitted he did really wrong and lied so he wouldnt lose me. He cant explain why he continued to speak with her but, admitted it was stupid idea and knows he is in deep and has asked for forgiveness. He wants to work things out and is willing to do whatever to do that. I at this point am angry I want to leave him! But, I know I have to think about the baby, my children, his parents. Whats best for all of them is that I stay and work things out but, my mind and heart is not ready to forgive him nor want to be with him at this moment. Nor can I trust him now! So I am stuck and would like sum input.. should I stay and work things out no matter how angry I am with him now or move on and risk destroying and disrupting others hearts because of this?