Have u tried to talk to him

Yeah but I just confuse him more. I don't think he believes me. He is a lovely man and I love him so much. But all av done is push him away

Another things i have learned in my seperation. Time time time.. if you rush it or try to force it. It gets worse. It took time to get like this u cant fix it one day no matter how hard u want to and all that you try it doesn not work.. you have to start small as much as it kills you teust me im there the pain the worry.. its all atill fresh but i eat it i write it down here and it geta it out of you.. small start with you first you guys are broken up try not to worry about what he does anymore i know hard. Fox your self first he will notice you dknt have to tell him that how gos works he will tell him show him. Take a deep breath calm down talk to him slowly take baby steps for youself.. thinga will fall into place where they are sopposed to fall one big lessond i have learned is even tho im married i dont control my wife you dont control your bf they can go as they please and if u grip to hard they will find there way out. So work on you first then your relationship..

I am trying to. I go seeing my counsellor on Friday. I just want to find myself and fix my relationship. I have never got on with anyone some much before. I am thinking positive but I don't think he is

Thats ok if he is not my wife wasnt either blameing me for everthing yelling at me treating me like garbage i mean she would scream at me to divorce her but now we both are thinking straight an beyter its a small step we are still seperated but working at it togther. So things will get better if u let them work them aelfs out. We say to one another we dont know the future but we pray god will lead us in the right path an things will work out in time

We still have the spark but I just need to find myself then I can pull us back together. Thank you yyou have helped. And I hope your wife sort it out and get happy together again

Ya no problem. Thats what we are here for is to help ya focus on your self calm down dont freak out. U will be ok in the long run trust me take it slow steady. The cards will fall in there place whatever u do do not let your mind rule u right now they will make u belive things that are not true and u will take it out on your bf u dont want that thats what i did with my wife and it pushed her farther. Im hopeing too but im takeing baby baby steps with her

Why do women push the men they claim they love away? Please help me understand this contradictory thinking...i dont want to engage in sexism, so i won't. Why would you harm your own relationship, then turn around and say you love him? Which is it? Whats going on upstairs? Message me if u dont want to put yourself on blast. I really am curious.