Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
my boyfriend of 5 years is leaving me. i came home and saw some of his belongings were gone. i asked him where his stuff was he said he was leaving.. It was out of the blue. I cant eat i have no appetite i hardly sleep.. I cry constantly i feel like life would be better without me
jdp369118
i was just there a few weeks ago except it was my girlfriend of 2 years its hard in the beginning it will take time to even get back in a routine well figure out one for yourself. But i can tell you i slowly gained my apetite back and sleep has gotten easier. your going to uern for companionship still not sure how long that last but i can tell you that your mind does start letting go but its a must for you ti break all contact otherwise youll never find the peace in yourself of him leaving im here for you plus alot of great ppl on this site oh and prayer is a big help
Broken9
Eat what you can when you can, regardless of what it is, sleep when you can... It's all you can do in the beginning,and cry your face off, let it out! It will get better, but it will take time, I wish there was a miraculous pill, but unfortunately there isn't... Sending you positive vibes, keep posting and we'll be here for you.
run2bfree
It will probably be hard for awhile, but with time things will ease up. Nothing stays the same and the pain will get better. Hang in there
realme
I know it doesn't feel like things are going to be okay - and it also feels like everything you have done - all the live care and happiness has been for nothing and has been a total lie- trust me - I have been there - all u have to do is know that ur gonna be alright - it takes time - but we have been through it - so sometimes you got to know that - ur more valuable that anyone makes you feel - just take this time to realize about yourself and just know that u will be alright
Slobo421
Break ups do that do people dear. I know it was unexpected for you and I care for you and your feelings. What I'm saying is just like some of the other members said the eating and sleeping thing works itself out after a little bit. You will be ok!! Just fight for your life to get better. Think of all the people who are in worse shape then us, people who have been so injured they don't even get to experience love anymore. You still have your health, your still a beautiful person inside and out, do you have any friends? If you do lean on them alittle, get yourself out of the house and make yourself tired. There is always a place for you in life, you have value!! Just because this man doesn't want you doesn't mean your over. Keep in fighting, don't give up, we are all fighting for something. We are here for you, you always have friends here....
Shaner23
It's hard the no sleep, no eating thing. I am having a hard time with the no contact and my hubby likes to come over of course he wants to see the kids but he does stuff around the house like take care of the pool and yard. It's nice I guess but hard seeing him.
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