Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
We are divorcing for issues that were unresolvable. Mine was for his drinking, however now that we are separated, he will not stop texting, we've only gone perhaps one day without messaging. I mostly reply with information about the kids or finances. I know he is still drinking and has not gone to get any treatment. He has apologized numerous times and says he would change things if he could. I continue to want to ask why don't you get help or why were we not enough? Thankfully I've attended Al anon and I am not going to ask him these questions that I have in the past over and over and over. I was told that there is nothing you can do for an alcoholic, or say....and now I feel since I am no longer the enabler, that perhaps he will find others such as his friends to take on his journey, before he ever hits his rock bottom. I just don't get it, but I again Al anon is helping me with it. Anyone else here in this situation too?
Behaviors and ways toward him, strong
Boundaries will help. Glad you are getting
Your own apartment.
Keep it as close to no contact as possible,
We just wrote in a notebook in the kitchen
Or went thru lawyers. All our communication
Ended when he asked for a divorce.
Keep the texting to the divorce, financials
and children Nothing else. nothing personal
at All. Use emails instead of texting don't Talk
on the phone with him. HUGS