Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Had a wrestling tournament out of state. He was there and seeing him hurts so bad. I have done nothing but cry. I texted him and told him I was sorry for messing up & making him hate me. He said he doesn't hate me but things we should just be friends. I asked if there was any chance on him giving me another chance or has he moved on. He said he can't predict t the future & if he says yes & it doesn't happen he is going to look like a jerk again. He said he has been out with someone twice & she is OK he just doesn't know if he wants a relationship.
In order to find someone who is emotionally & mentally healthy and capable of loving and respecting us in the way we each deserve, we must first love ourselves as well as be emotionally & mentally healthy.
IMHO, the best way to do that is by getting counseling with a qualified therapist. A good therapist can help you rebuild your self-esteem, find unconditional love within yourself and an inner knowing that you deserve only the best from other people.
~healing hugs~