Amen! This is life...nobody has a perfect life nobody has rainbows and lollipops all the time. That's not reality, however sometimes we tend to dwell on the bumps and not focus on all the positives in our life. I'm guilty of that myself.

We all have more positives in our life than negatives. Need to embrace that.

Sorry for whatever bump your going through, but you will get through it.

without the bad how do we truly appreciate the good...

Wow! yes..It's lie..Ok..we went through this bad times..We had this break up but we're healing so it's obvious that our lives should be good from now on, right? But it doesn't happen like that..For me it went like this:
bad break up

weeks of crying(I am thankful nothing came up in my crying period so i could suffer happily and unbothered)

my life got back on its tracks

got hit in the head by mom

lol :))

So not only do i have bumps on my road but also at the back of my head

Oh yes... This is so ironic that you post this today. I am completely feeling the same way right now. :)

The reson for that is because in a subcouncious level you are fearing it and therefore attracting it with your thoughts and emotions. Energy attracts energy. And the stronger the emotions behind it the faster you atract it towards you. That doubt or fear is what is bringing these things to you. It's called the Law of Attraction.

reason*

Not in my case. I had moved on from my old life. I was living in a new area, had a new job, and a brand new outlook on life. I feel that I have gained a ton of knowledge, wisdom, and experience through my whole divorce thing.

I am going along just fine and then something from my past comes back and bites me. I can't say much more about it other than it isn't related to my ex.

Either way, I have new tools and knowledge that I have gained through my divorce so I am a stronger person these days so I will survive it and eventually it will be an old issue (although this type of thing can take some time to resolve).

Hey, the very worst thing is that it just effects money. This is good. It doesn't have any bearing on my health, my life, or my current job. At best, it may do nothing.

I have my health, my family, and my new life so I will be okay. I had lost my health at one point in time due to stress and divorce and I have conquered those problems so I will ride out this storm as a much more experienced person this time.

I am speaking on a general level, not relationship specific. You can attract all kinds of things and events in to your life. Just have to know how to do it. Or better yet, how not to. Kind of like when it rains it pours. Perfect example of focusing on a negative energy that just keeps attracting more of it. You should check out the documentary "The Secret". It's pretty interesting. I have learned the philosophy and swear by it. It does work. Good luck to you!

Heave, good for you! You have developed some great skills and they will help you work through the lastest issue. Good luck and keep posting!

Lynne