Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Toughassteele 09/20/2018

I hate that u still have control. I hate that u are mean and a different person that I first met. I loved u I thought and u loved me. But I guess we fell out of love we I know I did because 12 years married and we're cheating on me. Really wow big man. Now u say your an amazing father and blablabla. You were never there to spend time with the kids and me. So busy working or drinking. You took my life away and messed me up. Todays my baby's first day of kindergarten and I get to miss it. I will never forgive u ever. I hope u burn for your choices. I'm sorry to vent but since I can tell him this I had to get it off my chest. This is to my ex husband. He is only doing this to hurt me but it's affecting our children to. I really need some strength right now. About read to give up.

bunnyhabit 09/20/2018

move on to new relationships and lose your hate with positive feelings of love for your new man. investigate first if any cheating history with his friends to avoid reenactment of past events.

keep in mind it takes two to cheat and is not only a male weakness. i know from experience.

OIP78 09/20/2018

Except the fact that you hate your ex so much I didn’t understand exactly. Is he still after cheating on you making your life miserable more than what is right now? Is he abusing you verbally or physically? What exactly is going on. Yes he cheated on you but maybe he regrets for what he did. I regret and I am working to win back my wife if I will ever. After 5 years she still can’t forgive me but I never will give up. If you can not be with him and forgive him then better divorce him runn way and look to enjoy your life. By hating him you don’t win any positive feelings or whatever maybe the opposite. You gonna be desperate and miserable inside you. Be kind and gentle with your self . Live for your kids and see what else is out there. Maybe you find someone else who gonna evaluates you more and love you more. I feel you . I know how all this situation is. I wish you the best . Please relax and let him go if he doesn’t want to win you back. Hugs.

Osheana 09/20/2018

I agree 100 percent with OIP78- It is good to vent and get things
off your chest but it is true that you should create a game plan
to move on.
The Key in this is to make the plan- and then stick to it- even if you are
numb and dont feel motivated.Going through the motions is a tough
seat to sit in but trust me-you will be doing this because although
these circumstances occurred with your ex- you can love yourself
through the process of moving on.
As said above in the post- vent and then Choose to be at Peace with him,
yourself,the situation.Doing this will make YOUR process less stressful.
It is important to take the time to nurture and love yourself through this
process.
Stay strong- Positive energy sent your way!! : )

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