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rose77
rose77
I am having such a hard time today. I am actually sitting at my desk at work and can't concentrate I can't do anything. I just keep trying to stop my self from crying. I didn't think I would hit this low again. I expected to feel sad and upset at times, but I am at a place I was in at the beginning. I just want to feel good. I just want to not feel such sadness. Why is he getting off so light he never seems to mind that we are no longer together. I can't wait to get to the place in my life when I don't care what he thinks are what he is doing. I just want to feel good again. Why couldn't he care enough about me to think of me first and stop doing what he was doing? Thanks for letting me vent
MARIENPAIN
MARIENPAIN
Mine never thinks of me. He is always number one to him. I have always put them before me, well now I am before him. You can't make him put you first but you can put you first. We deserve it.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Time will help and these times will become less. I still have a few days here and there where it just hurts. That is the only way to describe it, my heart just hurts. Mine only thinks of the ow, so it is hard to take at times. Hang in there and know that you are not alone.
keepthehope
keepthehope
You have been where many before you have been and may still be. I have been there and I can tell you where I am at today that you will make it through this. Hang in there.
deleted_user
deleted_user
It takes time. I know you don't want to hear that. I certainly didn't think it was helpful.

Cry when you need to. Journal about your feelings. Vent whenever necessary.

Stay away from endless questions and focus on now and keep an eye on tomorrow.

Hugs and peace.
deleted_user
deleted_user
its just the dam rollercoaster..

its completely normal to have a great day..week month and get hit with what i call the blams

hell it was just last saturday i was asking when it ends
veeachjay
veeachjay
I'm so sorry and BIG HUGS to you (((((rose)))))
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hey rose77 I'm 77 too. It was like u were reading my mind.just keep reading other people's word. It always helps me to feel less lonely.
deleted_user
deleted_user
(((((((Rose)))))))) I was at one of my lows yesterday. It seems that my bad days get worse when I have them, but my good days get better too. I know it sucks. I know that you hate to hear "it will take time" I know that time can't pass fast enough when you just want to be happy. On my good days, I don't care what he thinks, but on my bad ones.....I just wonder why I wasn't important to him. I just keep telling myself that we're divorced now so why should I care. It kinda helps. Just wanted you to know that you aren't alone.