Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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boribori 07/20/2018

today is have been a hard day for me, my emotions are everywhere. I’m wishing my situation go away so we can live a better life, but I know that is not going to happen anytime soon. I’m tired of trying to fix my marriage but I don’t want to quit, I’m really tired physical and emotional, I feel like I’m alone with all this and by the end of the road I will be alone. I don’t want to be alone and that is scary... thank you all for Listening

Crystalf 07/20/2018

Im in a similar situation. I keep trying but my husband keeps doing things that make me not trust him more. Im miserable. I never smile, and when i think about leaving im really scared. But i to know in the future i will be alone. Your not alone.

refurb 07/20/2018

where you are now is very draining
you have a lot to deal with just for yourself
add being a stand-up father and it can be overwhelming at times
you will keep yourself pulled together through this shitstorm
there may be a period of time that you will be alone
the storm will pass
you will endure
you'll be different But you'll be the same genuine man
you;ll cross paths with a genuine woman ... don't worry about such now
keep on being your children's father

daphne5 07/20/2018

Have you tried exercising every day? In order to cope better, you need serotonin. The stress from your relationship is depleting you of hormones that help you feel normal and cope. You may be in physical pain.

Start taking care of yourself. Exercise, eat well, get enough sleep. Put one foot in front of the other and sooner than you think, you'll start to figure out what you need to do.

boribori 07/20/2018

I started to run this past Monday, and wow, I’m outer shape, but I been running every night. Here is my schedule
5:30 to 6 get up and get ready
6:30 our the door
Work 8hrs
3:30 to 4 pick up the kids
4:30 to 6 make dinner
6 to 6:30 do dishes
From that
Cut lawn, or clean, play with the kids, do laundry, 9 to 9:30 get the kids ( good luck with that) 9:30 I try to leave the house for a 2miles run.

Yes my wife is there with the kids watching tv. Just wish every is normal

daphne5 07/20/2018

That's awesome. It's worth the investment in time. I've been doing it about 4-5 weeks and everyone that saw me in the beginning 2 weeks of the breakup are commenting on how much better I look and sound.

You sound like a great father. If your wife doesn't make it through her issues, someone else will snap you up.

boribori 07/20/2018

Thank you. I’m trying my best

bwill79 07/22/2018

I’ve been going through this as well. Living each day more hurt and confused than the last. Hang in there, god knows it’s a struggle. Every time you feel like everything is going to be ok something comes around the corner and bites you in the ass and gives you that dose of reality!! Ever need to talk, I’m down with that too.

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