Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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JennS 01/29/2007

My husband and I are having trouble, again. He is angry about finances. I'm disabled and can no longer work. I don't spend money unless he says I can. I'm very thrifty when it comes to grocery shopping. I've done all I can do.

Please pray for us. I will pray for you as well.

Thank you.

deleted_user 01/29/2007

It seems he has controlled it all.. u only spend what he gives or say. What really is the problem.. finaces or somthing more. u really need to have a open discussion with him..) and ask what reallyis going on .. and yes we will all pray for you.

deleted_user 01/29/2007

I posted this on the main board and I think it could help you. They even have books dealing with marital problems due to finances. I will pray for you and God Bless! Much love..

It hurts me because I feel like I don't even have a chance to save my marriage because my husband is deployed and tempted by another relationship. There are so many things that I have learned that I don't even have the opportunity to apply because he is in Korea lost in fantasy and we are just some distant memory

I don't want these tools to be lost, so I thought I would share them here so that you can use them. Maybe if I can help save you from this pain, God will forgive me for my own fears, the distance, being unable to find the words, the loss...

Here is a website with a great book that might help you stop the divorce before it is too late. It is amazing and their goal is to end divorce, restore families, and they have a 90% success rate. I hope you take a chance and get this, I hope it helps...

http://www.dnaofrelationships.com/

Here is a good prayer line, where someone will listen and pray for your situation.

1-800-303-Life

deleted_user 01/29/2007

JennS,

Controling is the right answer, but I am not preaching. My husband did it to. It is there way for some reason or another!

I will keep you in my prayers

deleted_user 01/29/2007

Control is a frame of mind. The only control he has over you is what control you allow him to have. You have a limit and obviously your not there yet. Prayer is not what you need at the moment, Courage, Backbone, confidence, determination, strength, take your pick. Whatever it is you fear that allows you to be controlled it is time eliminate it. Life is so very short, do not waste another minute being told how and when to do it. It is your life, make it that way.

You have it in you boo, first step is to believe in yourself.

JennS 01/30/2007

My husband is doing better today. He told why is feeling bad. He is doubting his salvation and having a lot of trouble with his spirituality.

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