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Yes, I might be patting myself on the back here, but shoot, I think I deserve it!
Yesterday was my son (5) and daughters (7) Christmas show at school. The x says he couldnt come...no news there. BUT the girlfriend did! She came all by herself! When I saw her come in, guess what I did? I motioned to her to come sit with me and my mom! I told her there was a seat next to us and told her to sit with us! And she did!
It wasnt so bad. Yeah, I have bad feelings for the girl, but, you know, Im really tired of caring! It is what it is and whatever happens to them, good or bad, oh well!
I am the one who pretty much initiated the conversations, look at that boy, hes so-n-so, and that is the girl my daughter says this about. (Not talking bad about the kids, just filling her in.)
So, I did it. I actually had a dream about her last night, too! She came to my house and the first thing I said to her in my dream was..."I was right, wasnt I? He's spending all of your money and now youre broke." In the dream she replied, yup! (A sign?!?!?)
WOW! What a long way I've come, huh? Dont get me wrong, I will be on here the first thing when I hear bad news about them, too! LOL!
Just wanted to share.
Have a wonderful weekend and a Blessed Christmas.
Yesterday was my son (5) and daughters (7) Christmas show at school. The x says he couldnt come...no news there. BUT the girlfriend did! She came all by herself! When I saw her come in, guess what I did? I motioned to her to come sit with me and my mom! I told her there was a seat next to us and told her to sit with us! And she did!
It wasnt so bad. Yeah, I have bad feelings for the girl, but, you know, Im really tired of caring! It is what it is and whatever happens to them, good or bad, oh well!
I am the one who pretty much initiated the conversations, look at that boy, hes so-n-so, and that is the girl my daughter says this about. (Not talking bad about the kids, just filling her in.)
So, I did it. I actually had a dream about her last night, too! She came to my house and the first thing I said to her in my dream was..."I was right, wasnt I? He's spending all of your money and now youre broke." In the dream she replied, yup! (A sign?!?!?)
WOW! What a long way I've come, huh? Dont get me wrong, I will be on here the first thing when I hear bad news about them, too! LOL!
Just wanted to share.
Have a wonderful weekend and a Blessed Christmas.
It works for you and you feel great! That's awesome
Di-di I am so happy you took this turn. It suits you. One less bag on your back. I love it.
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Reminds me of something that happened to me before I made the biggest mistake of my life. I think I felt a little throw up...yuck.
I'm still in the healing stage. I hope I can get passed these bitter feelings soon, so I can enjoy my life, without feeling so heartbroken.
Hugs for you.
But Im just tired of pretending she doesnt exist. Why bother. She is there and might be for a long time. Who knows!
Thanks again. I needed those pats!!
Your Christmas will definitely be blessed!
(((hugs)))