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Great news!

diemjs
diemjs
Just want to share my great news with you.

STBX took my name off of his bank account yesterday!! This means I am not responsible for the 100 plus bounced checks he has written since October 1st!! AND will not be held accountable for anything in the future!

Now, if I could only get him to get my name off the house:) (That check bounced, and he is 2 months behind).
deleted_user
deleted_user
Good stuff, I just opened my own checking account this week and I am canceling the join one.
deleted_user
deleted_user
congrats diemjs! things are looking brighter!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm not sure but a friend of mine had simarier problem he said he took out an ad in the paper say that he was not responable for her debts check into it
deleted_user
deleted_user
Congrats! Sooo happy for you. Now let's hope for the house. Courier and jerrian had some great advice to offer last night re your credit report during divorce - basically send a copy of your decree to all the credit reporting agencies along with any reporting that you contest with documentation and then they have 30? days to prove it is true or they have to take it off. Like jerrian said it's a pain in the butt but easy and worth it. You will have to ask what the web site was that someone offered that helped with this stuff. Again, congrats!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Also get a copy of the paper that says you're off his account. If they won't give you one, your should be able to request copies of the paperwork & signature cards. Call the bank and find out if they reported you to the credit bureaus.

Also have it specifically stated in your property settlement/divorce decree that you are not responsible for any of his debts and be sure they list every single one of them. I did that w/my ex and the lovely $10K loan he co-signed for an AA buddy who promptly defaulted. Made sure that money came out of HIS half AFTER everything was divided up.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Great to hear! Congratulations.
deleted_user
deleted_user
woooooooot!
deleted_user
deleted_user
good hopefully things keep going well 4 u
deleted_user
deleted_user
Good for you
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