Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My emotions are up and down, what if this what if that... not good. I am waiting for my car to sell so I can get caught up and file for divorce. It been a very long road for my son and I (if you want to read a novel look at my other post). I question my self is this right, am i doing the right thing, maybe I am an ass like she says.. lots of doubt, then , hell yes I am for the safety and peace for my son. I am very hurt, like never before. I am a 47 year old dad, I feel spent, tired and just old. a shell of a man. My oldest son and my wife, friends or lack of (you get to find out who your friends are really fast) I feel I am the only one in this nightmare. I am going crazy. I live in az, every morning this week , 6 to 630 am is confrontation, today I said to my self, I am done with that, took a shower dried off and got stung by a scorpian,then walked out in to confrontation. what a morning. My emotions are strong at this minute.but that can change in a split second. this is just torture. I think of all the times we had and what is now and its sureal. The hurts keep coming.
this quote helps me:
"Even places that have been shrouded in darkness for billions of years can be illuminated. Even a stone from the bottom of a river can be used to produce fire. Our present sufferings, no matter how dark, have certainly not continued for billions of years-nor will they linger forever. The sun will definitely rise. In fact, its ascent has already begun." -- President Ikeda