Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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I was just on the phone with stbx and we had a calm discussion about maybe going to counseling. He said to me yesterday that he wanted to lock us in a room and hash things out.
I told him today, this is what I have been saying about the counseling. Its the same thing as locking us in a room, but there would be someone else there to explain eachothers arguments.
I asked him 3 times this past summer to go to counseling and he said no each time. Now, he has an eye opener and is thinking about the counseling. I told him name the place and the time, and that he could pick the counselor.
I have told him this does not mean we are getting back together, but who knows. (I dont think he wants to get back together, so I say that to make him a little more comfortable about the counseling.)
BUT I want the counseling for either out come. I think it would be good for us no matter what happens. We need to get al ong for the kids sake.
BUT...I AM SO SCARED!!!! I dont know what to think or do!! I know only I can decide if I want to get back with him or not. WHAT DO I DO?!?!??!?!??
I told him today, this is what I have been saying about the counseling. Its the same thing as locking us in a room, but there would be someone else there to explain eachothers arguments.
I asked him 3 times this past summer to go to counseling and he said no each time. Now, he has an eye opener and is thinking about the counseling. I told him name the place and the time, and that he could pick the counselor.
I have told him this does not mean we are getting back together, but who knows. (I dont think he wants to get back together, so I say that to make him a little more comfortable about the counseling.)
BUT I want the counseling for either out come. I think it would be good for us no matter what happens. We need to get al ong for the kids sake.
BUT...I AM SO SCARED!!!! I dont know what to think or do!! I know only I can decide if I want to get back with him or not. WHAT DO I DO?!?!??!?!??
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Se if he actually does follow through on the counseling. Be open there.
in the mean time, focus on yourself and what you need.