Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Married 12 years, together 15, always been a good marriage, easy, didn't fight much, loved each other deeply. I work and he says home with kids. 6 months ago he has an affair and comes back to me begging. We work on it, we get counseling, I think things are going better but he still has times where I think he is not opening up, drinking more again. Finally I ask him to open up and let me in. He says he isn't happy and he wants a divorce. I am devastated. My children will be devastated. Our families will be devastated. Everyone in the community will be shocked.
How do I do this? How do I keep myself together enough to help my children? I never imagined this, I'm still in shock.
Once they start down that slippery path its Not a
good sign of things to come.
They really had already made a conscious choice long
before they actually acted on it whether they will ever
admit that or not.
When they are checked out emotionally they are already
disconnected from you and your marriage,
I am sorry for all your hurt and pain, it does get better. Keep
Posting on here to vent, i like therapy and divorce care helps
With the grieving and divorce process. HUGS