Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
generally a girl is interested if she makes dinner plans w you instead of lunch, more weekend dates rather than week nights, makes plans w you in advance rather than the last minute (unless shes trying to come off spontaneous and casual), she is more touchy feely around you than others, etc. i understand not every single girl out there is like this, but its a general idea. good luck!
We have some future plan's already made for certain movies coming out, i recently bought a trailer up north for weekend getaways...and she's already told me how excited she is for me and that she really wants to come up...
Melora: I agree big time that slow is good, she came out of a engagment about 6 months ago, and me being divorced. It's strange, the day i asked her about what happened between her and her Ex...and i said it in such a way were i frankly called the guy a moron for letting someone like her get away...was going for a hint with that one..also trying to gather info =p...we'll ever since then, thats when she started opening up more...texting me etc.
PrettyC: Yah...im trying to get back out there!!..lol
Thanks for the helpfull advice =)
I know when I'm interested I want to talk to him everyday... I want to know about his day and about him... Does she ask a lot of questions about you and what's going on?
But the reality is, take each moment and I mean literaly, and enjoy it. women do this all the time. We analyz every move and step of a man and think it to death. So you need to enjoy each moment or text whatever is coming your way.
Be breezy about all subjects and then ask her out officially, you will get a clearer picture from her answer and how the date goes. Good luck and even if she doesn't turn out to be the one, at least you are having fun again and you gained a friend!
OK, a test.
Sit or stand to close to her. If she moves away quickly that means she's not interested. If she stays close or takes her time moving away (30 sec or more...), or if she looks up at you....then she definitely likes you. Especially if you're alone together.
I agree that the texting everyday is a dead give-a-way. If we don't want to be bothered with a guy we won't put forth that much effort. I also agree with the body language. If she moves towards you, it's always a good sign. If she moves away from you, do a breath check. If all is ok, in the breath department, go back to being just friends. But ALWAYS, no matter what, always keep your friendship. It will be worth so much more in the long run, no matter what happens between you two.