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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

kerryon1
Anyone else? Bueller? Bueller?
I believe myself to be one. My parents divorced when I was 4 and that has something to do with it.
I know I self-sabotage some dating/relationships so that I won't get hurt.
I was a serial dater for like 8 years, off and on.
Then when I finally got in a relationship he ended up being emotionally abusive towards me, so I've given up on dating and sex now for a long time.
I believe myself to be one. My parents divorced when I was 4 and that has something to do with it.
I know I self-sabotage some dating/relationships so that I won't get hurt.
I was a serial dater for like 8 years, off and on.
Then when I finally got in a relationship he ended up being emotionally abusive towards me, so I've given up on dating and sex now for a long time.
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I don't like to hide my feelings and I won't, but the downside is I am a babbling fount of narcissistic supply. Control freaks are attracted to givers, and they practically beat a path to my door. Nice guys, on the other hand, well, they usually seem to think I'm just one of the guys, or at least that's been my past experience. My luck will have to change if I'm ever ever going to date again.
But musict, don't you also worry about NOT being emotionally giving? That can certainly ruin a relationship too. Ruin it for the guy who might be worthy, and ruin it for you if you get joy from giving love.
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The fear I hope will go away in time. I pray it does. Like ahen said, I don't want to pass up something that can be potentially wonderful becuase of my own fears.