Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
For a week now my boyfriend and I have been broke up cause i was stupid. I made a dumb choice and now i am paying for it. I had got suckered into meeting up with an ex of mine and he messed with my head and i sleep with him. I lied to my boyfriend about it and he knew something was off so i told him. he ended up storming out of the house and then came back and got his stuff. he broke up with me and now is already moving on. Im to the point of giving up on love cause i just mess everything up anytime im in a relationship. i feel like a worthless person. that i dont derseve to find love. i hate myself cause of what i done and i been crying for the last week. we have been talking and we are trying to stay friends but i dont think i can do it. im a mess. I look at him and want to cry. i keep trying to stay out of my head and keep away from the thoughts but to a point i want to listen to them. i dont want to be dealing with any of it. and what hurts the most is that it has only been a week and he already is adopting a friends son and will be dating her soon. i dont understand how he is moving on so fast. he swears up and down he loved me and was going to marry me. that he even had already ordered a ring. But if he loved me why is he already moving on. i cant even hardly talk to another guy cause i think of him. i dont get how its so easy for him
Don't see or talk to the guy who just broke up with you. It's just putting salt in the wound. It's going to take a long, long time before you start feeling normal again.
You made a mistake - that's human. Eventually, you are going to have to forgive yourself for it.