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feeling worthless to someone

Zenlife7
Zenlife7

I feel worthless to the one I love. I am not doing too well. I feel like they don't love me anymore and I pour my heart out to them. I feel used for my money and convenience of sex. My sense of self is gone and I'm in an utter hell of depression. 

shopgirl21
shopgirl21
My advice is to get out of that relationship! Even if it's just a break for a while...it isn't worth it to be feeling this way. and if any partner makes you feel worthless and you feel used you must take the strength to leave the relationship. I just went through this with someone and it took me 6 months to finally let go. I still miss them a lot, but I know I am better off and my heart isn't as broken. It can be difficult but you must do what is best for yourself.
11Christmases
11Christmases
I read a little bit of your other posts and I agree, you will feel better the sooner you get out. Your emotions are telling you something is wrong. Don't let this man manipulate you into thinking "YOUR insecurity" is the problem. It's him. You deserve better than this, and talking isn't going to change things. Walk away and start getting your confidence back.
Ghostwolf04
Ghostwolf04
I'm struggling with these feeling myself. I feel used and left behind, but my boyfriend won't leave, even when I try to break up with him, he says he will try harder, but I'm questioning if he is just trying to pacify me with words because he doesn't follow up with action and I feel neglected. I think you should tell him you need him to support you more and help you make a change in your life because you feel stuck and count on him to help you.
Cora_Belle
Cora_Belle
"help you make a change in your life because you feel stuck and count on him to help you."

Unfortunately, relying other people to do the heavy lifting in your life doesn't other result in good results. You have to get strong enough to do the lifting by yourself.