Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Hello, I'm new to this and am really needing support. I am losing my mind and just want to scream bloody murder! My husband of almost 19 years has not been unfaithful during our marriage. In the past he would beg me back and do whatever he had to do to make things right. This time I found out he was talking to someone half his age that works with him! He denies everything...although I have proof. The sad thing is he isn't trying to make things better. He flat out told me he just doesn't want to be with me. How can he say this after everything we've been through and knowing this will hurt our children. I told him to leave the house and he wont. He continues to stay here and walks around as if nothing is bothering him. He comes and goes as he pleases and has been going out.I believe he's going through a midlife crisis! I cry everyday and can't even function at work. I thought I was stronger than this....I feel so weak.
Why do you accept this? Why are you and your children living like this?
I'd get a lawyer, file and force him out.
I'd never take him back either, because once you get serious and file, they become "remorseful", and promise to change.
He will not change, and continue to disrespect you.
Feelings and emotions. Your H is just messing With
your head. He wants to do what he wants to do
regardless Of what right, proper, good. Or healthy.
Often we talk about checked out spouses he
Sounds like one. No care or concern for you,
The vows he made, moved on emotionally,
No remorse. You are a closed door in his
heart. They do not want to look in a mirror
And see themselves or what they have done
HUGS