I understand very well how you feel. If you can help him and his pup in any way why not do it. Just because we get separated from our spouse does make the caring stop especially if you have a heart and it sounds like you do. Are there any friends or family that can be of some help. If not then maybe you can still help him in some way and in doing so it may help you especially at this time of year. I'm concerned about the dog as a dog lover as well as I have a Boxer who is so very important to me. I am here for you if I can help in any way.

Thank you Gail13....Your right...i cant just sit by and be comfortable knowing he is down and out. Its winter time, the holidays are right around the corner and he does not have any family here or really no friends. His old boss is letting him stay in this shack but has him working his ass off to pay for basically the roof and i feel this man is just taking advantage of having a free hand and using it to his advantage. I feel like okay if it was actually suitable for living then it would be different but its a one room shack with a bathroom and thats it!!! No stove, no heaters, no kitchen, just absolutely nothing. AND its used to store heavy machinery and equipment. Ugh...i just cant stop worrying about him and the puppy. Everyone else around me thinks i should just turn my back on him and let him hit rock bottom but he is still my husband and that is a whole lot easier said then done. Thank you for your kind words and your right. I WONT turn my back on him completely because i love him.

Awwww ,I'm so sorry u are going through this . Loving someone who everyone thinks u shouldn't help is no fun, my advice,do what is in ur heart ,this is ur life not anyone else's and my mom always told me if they don't pay ur bills all the opinions shouldn't matter hope things get better for u and ur hubby praying for yall and ur family

Awww Brandi thank you so much for that. It truly lifted me up. I could only wish that my mom was so supportive that way. But unfortunately she thinks we should all be living our lives up to her standards. Im 40 years old and should not have to worry about what my mom thinks. I hope that you are feeling better today. Hugs...

I understand how you you feel. I also love someone who harmed me. I guess the big difference is that we were not married and I know that he is living somewhere comfortably. I am struggling with being alone again and wishing that this person who harmed me would somehow change and become who I thought he was in the beginning and come back to me....sending my best thoughts and big hugs

I know that feeling all too well Jennifer. Right now i am trusting God and holding on to my tiny bit of faith that i still have in my husband. God can perform miracles...Hugs and prayers to you also. Reach out anytime you feel the need.