Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Initial Status Conference for Divorce is tomorrow... we've exchanged the first 3 or so documents and we are more comfortable with it now. I can see that we will become a good Binuclear family both putting our effort in for the kids.
I read a few pages from the book "The Good Divorce" and that seems to be a very good, positive resource. I look forward to reading more of it.
At the moment I feel kind of Blah... hence I'm just posting here. I know I need to be content alone, but I can see how loneliness creeps in... or how there seems nothing to do, even when there is everything to do. I want to be as emotionally present for myself as for the kids... oh how easy it would be to just go act like a single fool.
I turned on some music, started up laundry, and am cooking. But still, this kind of sucks and I'm way past the ups and downs of the past ~7 years until now (when it slowly crumbled).
Hope whoever reads is having a nice day.
Cheers
LoneBuck/JBuck
I read a few pages from the book "The Good Divorce" and that seems to be a very good, positive resource. I look forward to reading more of it.
At the moment I feel kind of Blah... hence I'm just posting here. I know I need to be content alone, but I can see how loneliness creeps in... or how there seems nothing to do, even when there is everything to do. I want to be as emotionally present for myself as for the kids... oh how easy it would be to just go act like a single fool.
I turned on some music, started up laundry, and am cooking. But still, this kind of sucks and I'm way past the ups and downs of the past ~7 years until now (when it slowly crumbled).
Hope whoever reads is having a nice day.
Cheers
LoneBuck/JBuck
I feel for you
and can relate
Keep on doing what you've got to do
Eventually it will get better
for me, it:
sucks
is not so bad
is good
divorce for me was heartbreak, so being alone with my heartbroken self was not a lot of pinatas
i'm more heart bruised now so being alone vacillates between the above
i differ from sja in that in private i let myself crumble otherwise i couldn't have kept it pulled together for/with my kids
expect to hurt, hurt real bad, and even when you feel okay, expect that the hurt will come from somewhere,
i say that not to be a downer or to suggest that you accept surrender, i say it to take the power out of it, without surprise hurt loses some of it's punch
I have hope for the future, though I try not to focus on any thoughts of future love--seems like such a trap.
There are still hard times ahead, like moving out and the final decree...maybe those won't hurt as bad either. If they do, I will feel them...go through them and keep going.
Cheers