Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I don't even know how to feel anymore. How can someone that you have 2 children with, have been with off and on for 20 years, stood by through all of their addiction issues, cheating, incarceration, etc just treat you like a piece of crap?? My pride won't let me cry anymore. Even though I'm the one that left, I still hurt. I have so much anger that I can't cry. I feel like I'm going through a grieving period without knowing what stage of denial I'm in. I feel like no one will ever want me. Maybe I'm destined to be alone. Worst part is that I'm completely pissed at myself for ever taking him back the last time. I'm pissed at myself for ever thinking that God would make it better the last time. I hate myself!!!
I understand your anger. I also iunderstand the feeling of loneliness. But you know what? You're not destined to be alone. This is a wake up call for us not to put up with a mediocre relationship anymore. I look around me and see many examples of healthy, loving, respectful relationships. We can find that too. We just need to make room for it by getting rid of the crap relationship/marriage that is wasting our time. Big hugs.