Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I feel like calling him--it seems that I'm only remembering the good times now, and wish it could be like that. If I had friend saying this, I would tell her to forget him because of what he has done. It's just scary being alone and wondering what my life will be like. All the plans and dreams I had are gone, and I have to make new ones now, but that's hard. It seems so unreal that someone I spent 14 years with will no longer be in my life. I thought he was my best friend. :-(
But the breakup/divorce is like a death. It's the death of the relationship and you will mourn. You are not alone and you've found a good support group.
14 years is a long time - I was with my husband for 14 years. In that time, I never felt like he was my best friend - I always felt more like I was his slave, nanny, whore etc. He emotionally controlled me and abused me.
I don't know the extent of your brake up - so all I can really offer is for you to get out and do something. Don't sit home - walk around a mall, go see a movie or go "twilight" bowling. Thats always fun. The best thing you can do is go out and continue to live. Don't let him bring you down.
If you need someone to talk to, stay with us here on DS. Were always here for you.
((((((( HUGS )))))))