Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I have been divorce for about a month now. We were husband and wife for 13 years. I feel very lost and depress. I thought for a while that looking for another person that can entertain my thoughts it will make me feel better and will make me forget but then I come back to reality and realized that I am divorce and even though I have 2 gorgeous babies there is no reason to keep living. I do not want to suffer anymore and feel like not being here sometimes is the best choice. I have been entertaining these thoughts for about 3 weeks. There is so much ahead in terms of house, living arrangements, financial decision that I am very scare on how would I will be able to cope with everything that is coming. I hate to see my EX talking and happy all the time around my house talking on the phone with his other women. I found out that the guy I was talking to still looking for other women online and most likely dating even though he told me that he and I were exclusive........I don't trust anyone.......Today I am feeling way down which is not good
You have a hard time believing in and trusting in men because your wounds are way too fresh. And because the wounds are fresh and you are hurting, you are not going to attract a good man who wants relationship with an emotionally healthy woman. You will, however attract the kind of men who look for insecure, needy women because in their desperation to find love and feel loved, many women make very bad relationship decisions.
Heal yourself, become emotionally healthy and you WILL find a good man. Do anything less and you set yourself up for additional pain and suffering.