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Feeling down today!

Mr_G
Mr_G

Today, is just one of those days when you find yourself hopeless and difficult to remain positive.  I feel lonely.  I miss my kids so much.  I find myself crying and alone at home... I try to accept my reality but I am simply feeling overwhelmed.

veggiequeen
veggiequeen
I am just recently pulling myself out of another funk. I do try to reach out and share and help others but when I am truly feeling down and sinking myself, I still find it hard to reach out .

The fact that you can simply jot a few words here to share how you are feeling, is a good thing. There are so many of us going through similar issues (as well as some different) May it help just a smidge to know you are not alone and others on here do care and look forward to the day you feel that hope and some joy again.

I think you said before that you need to work on yourself My hope is that you can focus not on the emptiness and negativity, but on positive feedback that you have gotten from others (to remind you that you are still a good man who has lots to offer) Maybe put that focus on your kids to something special you will do when you do see them next.

My thoughts and prayers ( as well as many others) are with you.
fakeblonde
fakeblonde
Oh, so many of those days for me lately. My husband alternates between despising me and letting me know this via dozens of texts, emails and voicemails . . . then sends a random email that he misses me. My weekends consist of staying in my pj's all weekend watching movies and crying. I try not to cry on the way to work so I don't look a wreck, but boo-hoo all the way home after work. Uggh! The rollercoaster of emotions is terrible! Anyway, totally know how you feel, you are definitely not alone. And somehow, even though we feel awful, we survive.