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feel very alone

lmecklen
lmecklen
I'm so hurt and feel so alone. My boyfriend and I broke up cause we just couldn't get along. We had a mutual friend that I got really close too. When we would go out it was always the 3 of us. Since me and my bf have broken up she has not reached out to me and all over facebook it shows them and a group of people out having a blast. I'm so hurt and there all happy loving life. I know there isn't anything going on between them but why am I the 1 being thrown to the curb all alone. Omg im so angry!!
helerown
helerown
Sorry you find yourself here, but glad you did in this time of heartache. You are not alone and you will get great support here, I can assure you that. Hugs to you.
kbbcoop77
kbbcoop77
When you break up with someone there is usually a "choosing of the sides" so to speak in regards to mutual friends. It's totally normal but it does suck. That's why it's so important to have your own friends and own life separate from your partner so if this happens you have your own support group. It's really a valuable lesson for you.
Take care
You'll get through this..trust me!
loosingthebattle
loosingthebattle
No doubt. My stbx claims it's cuz they don't knownwhat to say, but they have supported him. Just another part of process, finding new friends & activities. Bless is all
ALD13072
ALD13072
I would suggest you block him and the "friends" too from Fakebook.
You will not be able to heal while snooping on him in social media.
Unfortunately with breakups also comes the loss of friends and extended family. Now is a good time to lean on your family and true friends.