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I was just wondering if anybody either did or had a spouse that faked the "big O". my wife did and I remember feeling like I had been cheated because years I had thought I was pleasing her until she told me the truth. I'm the kinda of person that wants to please my mate and if I don't I wanna know so at least I have the chance of improvement or at least can say there's nothing I can do. then after she confessed I had problems being intimate with her because I was afraid that if I wasn't pleasing her she would just fake it again.
why r women so good at doin' that anyway? Are they just talented that way? there's a radio show guys in our shop listen to where women call in and fake it on the radio. you'll never hear a guy call in and do that. I guess we're just bad actors or somethin'
why r women so good at doin' that anyway? Are they just talented that way? there's a radio show guys in our shop listen to where women call in and fake it on the radio. you'll never hear a guy call in and do that. I guess we're just bad actors or somethin'
And by her saying that she never had one could be equivalent to someone saying "and I never loved you" - Just a way to shoot you down , It has nothing to do with being talented - And if her claim to fame is to be a good faker, then that's something to think about.
Lynne
I've faked it before. I think most women have. Sometimes you just can't so why let them down for all that hard work they have done?
She's had an orgasm in her life, I know that, but she confessed to me when we were dating that with boys before she didn't hae one because, for one reason, she knew they didn't really care about her as a person and with me she felt I did care about her.