Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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MTGrl 09/12/2016

I finally went onto FB today and changed my relationship status.

Single

I was SO tempted to see if he had changed his. I checked his FB about three weeks ago (before blocking him) and he had already changed his to single. For someone who supposedly never went on FB...he sure got that done in a hurry. Smh.

I knew I'd blocked it. I know I can unblock it...but I'm not gonna go there.

Tomorrow it will be a month since I broke up with him. Haven't seen him on Skype or heard his voice.

I miss what I thought I had with him. =,{

mirandac 09/12/2016

MT, I am not a facebook fan but i did change mine
To divorced and the new town i live in. My ex loves
FB i was lucky he blocked me and i only can see
His timeline and he does not post much there.

I do miss the good years too, they were long ago for
me Though. It had been bad for way too long and i
hurt Myself more by staying too long in a bad and
unhealthy relationship.

You sound better every time you post, HUGS

MinFlorida 09/12/2016

I know what you mean about missing the good...please excuse me if I'm prying in (I'm new here). But getting out of the bad sure is great.

MTGrl 09/12/2016

@Mirandac....I do? I'm feeling a bit better...thank goodness. =)

MTGrl 09/12/2016

@Minflorida...You're not prying..lol. It is better to get out of the bad. =)

MinFlorida 09/12/2016

I keep getting these little "surprises". And they are NOT good. :(

kbbcoop77 09/12/2016

Do NOT look at his Facebook page..I made that mistake in the early days with my ex wife bullshit fakebook crap, took me awhile to get over her sugary shit as they just post how everything is awesome and how great their life is and blah blah. I only use Facebook for sending funny memes or pages to my daughter and some friends but I blocked my ex a long time ago and I have zero desire to peek at her lies.

MTGrl 09/12/2016

MinFlorida...no..they aren't.

mirandac 09/12/2016

I hated my little suprises, i had enough Of
them Until i went no contact and moved.
HUGS

MTGrl 09/12/2016

@Kbbcoop77...I didn't unblock and snoop. I had those brief moments when I considered it..but I didn't. I remembered some advice someone gave here. Going back and talking..seeing..FB and stuff like that is like ripping off a scab on a deep wound. Afterward, it takes even longer to heal. I don't want to cause myself anymore pain.

MTGrl 09/12/2016

Its sooooooooo tempting, tho. >_<

MTGrl 09/12/2016

Ugh..I'm done thinking about it...and talking about it.

kbbcoop77 09/12/2016

Good for you! Plenty of happy thoughts to focus on!

MTGrl 09/12/2016

I agree... =)

steppingup 09/13/2016

wish I could give clever advise but I can't.. lol.,, but I can give praise.. Weldone for not giving into the temptation.!

MTGrl 09/13/2016

Thank u =)

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