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diemjs 08/28/2008

This heavy weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Something in me snapped and made me open my eyes to see what was going on in my life. I feel at peace today. I think this is the begining to the end, and I couldnt be happier.

With this peace comes the understanding that my life is passing by and my moods are getting in the way of me living that life.

So, I have decided that my life is callng, and Im going to go answer it.

I love you all!
(Im not leaving, just wanted to share:)

deleted_user 08/28/2008

You are not allowed to leave! EVERRRRRRRR!

deleted_user 08/28/2008

That is SO wonderful. Someday I ope to join you there.
Let your light shine! This is great!

deleted_user 08/28/2008

So glad to see you are on your way!! Answer the call. There are so many,many wonderful things to experience, so many wonderful people to meet and things to do. Make your own happiness. It is attainable!!

diemjs 08/28/2008

Z, Im NOT leaving DS. I couldnt! Too many people here need me! LOL Just kidding! Seriously, Im not going any where.
*wipping tears from my eyes from laughing so hard*

deleted_user 08/28/2008

That happened to me too. I would mope around all day. My theme song was "I Hate Everything" by George Straite. Than I woke up and said what the *@%&* anm I doing? I was not getting any younger. It came to me that this could be the funnest time of my life. I could do thing for me that I enjoy. So that is what I did. I bought a pair of rollerblades. I looked like a complete fool but who cares. I was having fun and along the way I met people...I learnt to hang out with people who were good for me. I met my man and everything turned out awesome. I could still be moping around and that is a scary thought.
Your epiphany is brilliant and just have fun with it.

diemjs 08/28/2008

I want to go get my motorcycle liscence:-)

deleted_user 08/28/2008

Thanks for sharing that. It reminds me of a saying I used a while back when I thought like that.

"The moment you enter a dark tunnel you are on your way out"

...I suppose what I mean by that is that you can never stand still. You have to move the best you can.

This moving on can be refreshing I think, as long as you move. Your comment also reminded me of this song, although the song is about something else maybe...I just thought of this song...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xS61sdS5t7M&feature=related

deleted_user 08/28/2008

I am so sorry, I know this is not a song thread but I cant help it. The beast within me needs an antidote for that american pie song I just posted....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YARxccf0Uno

diemjs 08/28/2008

You're funny noob! No worries mate!

deleted_user 08/28/2008

That is GREAT!!!!! *high five, hug*.
I'm so glad for you!

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