That I've never heard before. And probably the fastest way that she could shoot herself in the foot. She's just proven herself to be a liar to the courts.

Do you have an attorney/solicitor representing you? If not then it’s high time to acquire one.

Did she do it knowing it would be thrown out because she dont really want a divorce? It doesnt make any sence.

I refused to sign the petition.

Could she be pregnant?

No she isnt pregnant. We was trying for three years for a baby and was supposed to start ivf last year. Been seperated since jan 2017. So no chance

Could she have a child from a previous relationship, from before her time with you? Maybe the child is living with someone else and she thinks she can pin paternity and financial obligation on you. Or she's simply looney.

Lloydie79. With all your power you really have to let her not take you mentally out. Is this pain really worth it? Ask yourself !

You really have to redifine what love is and how you want it to be.

She’s not giving you love. She’s giving you PAIN. KNOW THE DIFFERENCE. That saying “we want what we can’t have”.....well there’s limits to that when it gets unhealthy. And this is unhealthy.

Why let her hold you like a vise and from living and rebuilding yourself.


Why give someone like this so much power!!

She just wants to destroy you out of anger instead of dealing with her own self issues.

Are you gonna let her win this mental game?? Come on you can do it. Only allow so much time in a given day to think about this. When it consumes you it consumes you ! Let something new enter your life.

Put a stop to the emotion game. This is business now. Just take this as a sign that she set her own fate.

Let her be a fool in court. The faster someone else calls her bluff the better for her.

If I were you I would refine your situation as already divorced and it’s paperwork to follow.

It’s been long enough. If you start asking yourself better questions of what you want you will receive the answers. And the answers won’t be her.

Your just forgetting what it should feel like when a woman wants you. You will feel love and forget the pain. I’m routing for you. Johnny29

I’m so sorry to learn about your situation, Lloydie. I’ll be praying for you, that God will give you wisdom to deal with your circumstances. Stay strong, okay?

Jojored we was together for 12 years. Married for 4 years.

So you don't think she had a child previously, then I stand by "she's looney". Let it play out in court, she will look the fool. My ex said so many stupid made up things to his lawyer, and I really don't understand why. Lawyer's and judges don't care a whole lot about how a person "feels", they just want the facts, and proof of facts. I cleared up enough of my ex's hysterical BS claims with proof to his lawyer - to the point where his lawyer stopped trusting him, and would look to me for my position on more crap the ex would say. I always had the evidence to refute the ex and my ex stopped being taken very seriously by his lawyer. Fools dig their own grave, your job is to just step out of the way.

She hasnt any children we met when she was 18 and split when she was 30. No children with anyone else. She did it to mentally abuse me like she has done for years. She knows how to push my buttons

Learn how to not respond when she "pushes your buttons". That is all part of the whole detachment process I mentioned in your post re: Can we move on so fast?