Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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mysteryman73 12/31/2009

So I just found out that my ex wife is getting back with a ex before we meet why doe's it still bother me.

deleted_user 12/31/2009

'cuz

LKess 12/31/2009

cause you have a heart and you are human.

MsViv 12/31/2009

but Jaken, is she moving on, or moving backwards?

Mystery man - cause you care, and maybe you feel like she is just disregarding you?

The hell with her - move on yourself.

FrankTheGreat 12/31/2009

Because that means the entire time she was with you, her feelings for her ex never really died out. And maybe one day she'll tell this other guy she should have married him.

Thing is, maybe they did (the feelings that is). Maybe this is a complete do-over for them. There's no way of knowing.

mysteryman73 12/31/2009

It was her first love but we are divorced I should care anymore.

mysteryman73 12/31/2009

sorry shouldn't care

patti22 12/31/2009

Feelings are feelings .....they aren't right or wrong.

deleted_user 12/31/2009

Nothing really to analyze hon.

It is what it is. You feel bad. Go ahead and Be There. It's totally human, and you will move past this. Just don't bury it.

((hug))

mysteryman73 12/31/2009

Thanks everybody

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