so my ex moved out less than a week ago. 2-hours after he left he calls to let me know that he left some things and would have to come get the following weekend. Fine. Calls me yesterday I guess to reconfirm that it would be ok to come on the weekend, and that if I have plans or need to leave to text him and he will do it another time. He is clearly fishing for info but I didn’t react. I did love him, but he’s never going to change and especially after seeing that he will never marry me, and always saying such negative and hurtful things about me that I think he really believes because of his resentment toward women. He grew up in an abusive and toxic environment which he witnessed a lot of things a young child shouldn’t. Anyways, I don’t want to get caught in the trap of reconciling especially not at this point, how he is so I need to keep him out of my life. If he had told me he would change and get help, I might consider it but all he has ever done was blame me and project everything on me. He should have done a walk through and gotten everything at once. Seems in head he is refusing to accept that we’re done.