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What are you suppose to think, when your ex starts asking you Q's like if you would want to date again; if you ever regreted dating him; when he asks you to recall memories from your relationship to make sure that you hadn't essentially forgotten in a way and that you he hadn't used him; , which i wouldnt because i cared about him deeply i still do care about him. I don't know what to think of it. It's like mixed signals. Idk if he's just wondering or if he's wanting to know because he wants more.
Yikes... my guess is he is playing games or is really confused himself. They generally don't know what they want at that age.. (assuming he also is 16?)
Why don't you ask him?
Lynne
i would tell him to mind his own business. you two are over with, broken up, history.... so maybe it's best you just leave it at that, history.
move on with your life, and like lyce said, have a good summer!
my ex (when we were still speaking) tried prying into me like that and that's why i don't speak to him anymore (or any of my exes for that matter)..... i really don't like drama. there's no need for it to disrupt your life.
unless there's kids involved, there's no reason to keep in touch with historic partners. that's just asking for trouble if you ask me. close out those chapters of your life and get on with things. there are more important things to focus on. just my 2 cents.
i think you should just ask him