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As you know, I had a long talk with my Ex last week. We cleared the air on a lot of things, I am glad we talked then rather than 3 months ago. So, after my talk with my Ex last week. I saw I had a missed call from. I did not bother to call him back as he did not leave a message. The next day I emailed him and said the following:
Hey,
I see you called, you did not leave a message, so, I figured you called by accident. I hope that I did not over step any boundaries on anything I said. No matter what, I always want to leave a positive and lasting impression.
His response was:
No problem. I just wanted to ask you something no big deal. Nothing important and glad we talked. Maybe when time permits I'll ask my question. but I just rather talk than text or email.
My response was:
Sure, just let me know.
Just me wondering, what the hell is the question?
Hey,
I see you called, you did not leave a message, so, I figured you called by accident. I hope that I did not over step any boundaries on anything I said. No matter what, I always want to leave a positive and lasting impression.
His response was:
No problem. I just wanted to ask you something no big deal. Nothing important and glad we talked. Maybe when time permits I'll ask my question. but I just rather talk than text or email.
My response was:
Sure, just let me know.
Just me wondering, what the hell is the question?
if you miss a call - miss it. don't contact him and ask him why he called - if he wants to reach you or call you back and leave a message he will.
everyone has been telling you to go no contact. you have been telling everyone you needed to tie up loose ends. now when you say you did "we cleared the air on a lot of things" you still call him to see what he wants. do you REALLY think at this stage that there is going to be anything he could ask that is going to be so life altering that you need to expend the energy to send him an email to find out what he needs?
hes a douche bag. an ass hat. carry on with your life and stop worrying about this man. its not worth the energy.
who cares if you stepped over any boundaries? or leave a positive lasting impression? cut ties with this person. aren't you exhausted of him yet?