Alex, I know you are hurt and confused, but know that you are valuable. You need to value yourself and give yourself time to work through your issues. You don't need others to validate you. Enjoy being you - alone - and others will see that and value you. That's when you meet someone worth your affection. Good luck and be kind to yourself.

Alex,

You can not be with two people and give yourself fully to each one. It's not fair to all 3 of you. If you want to be the best you can be in your relationship, choose one and devote yourself to that person. If it doesn't work out then end the relationship prior to starting a new one.

If you are scared of being alone, that is an issue. Becky's advice is absolutely true. Give time to be you, alone. It's amazing what you realize is important to you and how it helps to give direction and meaning to your life.

Good luck.

Alex, know that it is going to hard at first being by yourself. But what Becky said really is the healthiest thing for you at this time. The main reason for me agreeing with what she stated is I recently have gone through a very smiliar situation. I had to be alone and to myself for awhile in order for me to be able to be happy with just myself, in order to obtain a healthy relationship with somebody you need to get right by you first. It was very hard for me at first, myself being a former Heiron addict it was hard to be alone i was scared of being alone, but now I am in a healthy and stable relationship with someone who sees me for who I am and she can find comfort knowing that I am now finally happy with myself and no longer have to struggle with my inner demons wanting out.