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Ended things with the love of my life

miagotme
miagotme

We had a great relationship despite him constantly looking at other girls. the thing is from the beginning he just wanted sex from me but he felt bad so he asked me out afterwards. I was never his type and i started noticing that he didn’t really have much interest in me when he would always look at other girls and literally gawk at them even when i was right next to him, (even apart from other women, i constantly supported him, but he would support his other female friends but when it came to project or things i did, he would just scroll past it on social media.)i think that’s just so disrespectful and i feel like it shows someone who isn’t content with what they have.


y’all probably think oh all guys look at other girls, but he treats it like he can’t live without it. and i could be right there next to him how embarrassing is that. it makes me look like a joke or. side chick. plus i’ve been in a relationship before him where the guy only looked at me and didn’t even notice girls no matter how beautiful or busty they were. but i was really in love with this guy (24/m). I would always get upset that i was compromising everything to shift to his lifestyle because i wanted him so much i really was madly in love with him for 3 years.


but i feel like after we had sex, he just had enough of me. and every time we’d go out and he’d see someone his type he’d just gawk at them. like?? you’re gf is literally right next to you???


so last night i was with my friends and they are bustier than me and he was just staring at their chests the whole night.


i just think that’s so disrespectful. like how are you gonna check out my own friends???? i just feel so bad and now it makes me super insecure about my own body and i can’t stop hating myself. i’m even considering plastic surgery now.


he has never looked at me the way he looked at them last night. i could be half naked and he’ll just ask why or just walk out the room. but girls who are fully clothed he practically breaks his neck to look at. i truly feel so ugly.

Atpeacemary
Atpeacemary
hugs my friend. What do you mean "you had a great relationship" Sorry to burst your bubble, but you did not even have one, What you had was nothing but heartache, disrespect and abuse. Let him go. You deserve better than that. Hold your head up high, smile, turn around and walk away. In fact run away from him as fast as you can. He is not worth it. One guy I used to date did that once, twice and the third time, he ended up in the pool at his parents house. He dared to criticize me for talking to his best friend, Right beside him too, while he practically was stripping some bimbo naked. She was half way there anyway. I am not endowed with big boobs either. hehehe And he was the son of a wealthy business man too. So what. His mother started after that and I threatened her that she would be joining her son in the pool if she did not move out of my way. hehehehe
miagotme
miagotme
I'm glad I'm not the only one dealing with this! the way he acted like he was right in what he was doing made me feel like I was crazy or something. It's honestly disrespectful and shows that youre not content with what you have. I'm heart broken, but I think I'm ready to move on. Thanks for your words
rianbooyer
rianbooyer
Relationships are a two way street and he was driving it into the ditch. He isnt worth your time to worry about or get depressed about since he was looking at other women. Good riddance to bad rubbish find someone who can love you for you and not look at other women because you are his whole world.
caligirl83
caligirl83
He sounds like an epic douchbag, run as fast as you can. I know it’s easier said than done, but no one is worth your inner peace. Someone like this will eventually drop you for the next best thing, and not just you but anyone. It’s a destructive cycle of thinking the grass is greener on the other side. Let the loser go, one day karma will hit him like a pile of bricks. Respect yourself enough to walk away and stop feeding the narcissist. He is only reaping the benefits off of you and giving nothing but hurt in return.
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