Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Hi all!!
I finally did it!! I had and gotten married y'all.
I have been married now for 2 years and 3 1/2 mths now! I thought I had it all figured out. We even had a Five-Year Plan. Where to buy our own house. We were to invest in properties. We were to go back to school. We were to start a business and write novels. Sounds so cool huh?
But then one day it all was destroyed in one day my life turn itself upside down in one day what I thought was so good turned out to be so f****** bad I was devastated I was in shock I was confused I was trying to make sense of it all I still am.
Hold on let me back this up! Babies were planned. what do you say to that? I have a daughter that is five months old now.
I went to a dance competition with my girl and there friends only to come home to find my husband gone without a trace. Phone number changed.
My mother called and said she had saw him leaving with two bags and moving hastily. So you'd think we had a terrible fight and it was his last straw. But no his last words to me were you look beautiful as always. But to do this was...... Idk.
I'm going back and forth with myself with white to blame. One day I'm mad as hell n the next I'm sad and don't want to really move sometimes. I keep praying to God like what happened did I missed something.i think he may have lost his job and lied to me and his family about it! Oopsßd forgotdd to mention that he hasn't spoken to his family either! Some were saying they know and just not telling. Well I've seen and heard from his family
The emotions your going through are normal. Its gotta be rough for you to come home one day to find everything not the way it was. Im sorry you are going through this. Hopefully you will figure it out quickly and get on with your life. Peace to you and your child.
No matter what his reasoning or excuse, I don't need that kind of crazy in my life, or my child's life.
Hugs!
You good to talk to a therapist to help you
Come to terms with this. HUGS.
I'm on the side of therapy. Seeking that now.
On the flip side I call myself confiding into an old flame of mine. And he seemed genuinely concerned. He's going through a divorce as well. So I thought it was Ok. But he and I are also sexually attracted to each other too. We started slow just talking everything out? But lust took over and I screwed up and fell on his sword if you know what i mean. I started feeling so guilty and angry UT and confused all over again. Thinking he'd go through this process of ups and downs he made it all about him making me feel even worse. So I've come to the conclusion fitness all manipulation on his part. I cut all ties to him apologized for wasting his time, deleted number, FB page. I use to keep his picture in the China cabinet I took that down too! Yes I'm lonely, but most importantly I feel misunderstood, vulnerable, and out of sorts.
Its the worst thing you can do. Just what happened to you
It does not improve your situation or help your thinking And
it adds gas to an already very hot fire.
You are extremely vulnerable watch out for predators
And bad guys. I only had one i chased him away they
are Sniffing around. Its a scary world out there. Focus
On you and your child. KEEP SAFE and STAY SAFE.
Get into therapy ASAP, HUGS
This is a long hard recovery journey. HUGS