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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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tolonely 05/14/2017

my husband I are still married but shouldn't be like I said before as soon as I can get a job I'm out so today is Mother's Day last night I went with my older SON TO THE RED HOT CHILI PEPPERS CONCERT HE ASKED ME IF I WANTED Him TO DRIVE IS THERE AND BACK HE WASNT DOING IT TO BE MOCE HE WAS DOING IT BECAUSE HE IS A CONTROLLING PERSON WHICH I DONT PUT IP WITH ANYMORE SO LONG STORY SHORT MY MOM LIVES CLOSER TO THE CITY THEN I DO SO MY SON AND I SPENT THE Night THERE SO NOW JE OS NOT TALKING TO ME WHICH THAT DOESNT Bother ME ITS THAT HE IS DOING OT ON FRONT OF OUR TO TO YOUNGER CHILDREN AND I KNOW THEY FEEL THE TENSION I HAVE TRIED TO STAY CIVIL WITH HIM FOR THIS REASON AND ITS REALLY FUCKED UP THAT HE CANT ACT LIKE AN ADULT THANKS FOR LISTENING

Ghostdancer 05/14/2017

Easy my friend, some deep breathing slowly. Ommmmmmmmmmmmm right out of his cosmos. You need space to heal. Blessings Be and huggggzzzzzzz

sjs777 05/14/2017

you're not alone. disrespect of you in front of the kids is something i'd call him out on. as for coping and moving forward, I'm here if ever you need a caring ear

Dandelion 05/14/2017

It's really hard to read that with the caps.

I think mirandac is the one who says it takes all the maturity one can muster to get through this sane

You can't control what he does, just your reactions, so it seems you really need to practice detaching emotionally.

Consider that the minute he senses he can irritate or get a reaction from you, the more he's likely to do it to get a rise out of you.

Don't give him the satisfaction

tolonely 05/14/2017

Thanks everyone sorry about all the caps I meant to only put son in caps and as I was doing it my daughter was asking if I wanted Starbucks bc he was taking the kids and that's what I mean by his ignorance he made it uncomfortable for her bc he just walked past me and said nothing

tolonely 05/14/2017

Ghostdancer I like that I always breathe in the positive and breathe out the negative (him)

angelheart077 05/15/2017

That's pretty awesome you and your son were able to go to the concert. How was it? Did he seem to have a good time? I hope things will work out with you and DH, children can def feel tension in the home. My prayer is y'all will be able to work past these and there be healing....hugs from Texas

sjs777 05/15/2017

your friend sjs checking in on you - hoping you're having an incredible day

tolonely 05/16/2017

Thanks to both of you my oldest son went with me we had an awesome time I hope both of you have a great day too

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