Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I have just recently broken up with my ex who I had been with for 5 years and I'm still trying to get a grip on the reins of change in my life. We were planning to get married this year when I noticed a change in his attitude towards me and as a person who had loved someone as much as I did... it hurt, it hurt really bad. Before I met him I was such an introverted person that it was rare for me to even make new friends. I gave him all of me and opened up to realise he is selfish. Now here I am unable to speak to friends or family about it. I've considered throwing myself into dating but I know I'm not ready all the while he throws in my face that he's happy and has moved on. It's like a fight within myself and I'm stuck in the middle numb to everything that is happening and I can't understand why God is putting me through this. It's stupid to question God and blame him but it's so hard to see a silver lining. I don't know what to do.
I have broken up with my ex, and I know how toxic he is to me, but the feeling still exists. And the worst part its the loneliness. I'm so afraid of that! I thought just like you, to throw myself in a new relationship, but, I know I'm not ready, especially because I dont trust anybody now.
What I can advise to you, that its helping me, its spend time with yourself. Rediscover yourself. Try to avoid any kind of contact with him. And find somebody, friend or family, or even here, to talk about it, someone you know that cares, and have passed for a situation like yours, because thats how this person will understand you. People on this support group will always help.
hugs, stay strong!