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OK guys help me here. Why am i constantly dreaming of my ex husband. We had a ugly divorce. He is in Florida with his new wife and me here in NY and last nite i dreamt he was with me but with another woman trying to flaunt her to me. Then i actually heard his dam voice in my dream. It freaked me out when I woke up and remembered. He looked at me and said "How you doing?" Several people have also just come out of no where and asked how is the ex? i told them why would you ask that OMG!! then they say things like "I dont know I just did" or "I feel he is going thru something" He use to work for the Journal News and I am a secretary. The other day the phone rang and we have caller ID and when i went to answer it the window said "Journal News" but nobody on the other end. Freaky huh?
" Dreams reflect all aspects of our waking life outer and inner experiences. This includes sensory as well as extrasensory experiences and matters of body, mind and spirit. They place their focus where you primarily place your waking focus. If you are concerned about matters of the body and health, your dreams may reflect worries about your physical condition. On the other hand if you are focused on matters of the spirit, your dreams may reflect this grander image of self. For most of us our dreams are related to dealing with closure. This can be closure on some problem we are trying to solve, but a mostly dealing with closure on unprocessed emotional events of the day, threats to our inner self from without or within. These might be experiences that dont fit our internal view of self and reality, things that trigger unresolved traumas or internal arguments. Dreams try to gain balance and closure by either trying to find a fit or by compensating to try to changing the inappropriate inner view of self (transformation)"
every other person, every object in them are all different parts of you
things we accept about ourselves, those things we dont want to accept, the things we are aware, and unaware of
ask yourself what your ex represents to you
and look for those things in yourself
then you have some useful information about how youre doing
below the surface