Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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skp 10/04/2017

He is my one true love and I am his. I don’t want to get over him. I don’t want time to help me forget. I don’t want anything but to be with him. It is too much to handle to think that I have to live another day without him. I know that he’s confused but I’m scared he’ll always stay that way and never realize what he lost. This isn’t fair and my heart is breaking. I feel no reason to live. We were the perfect couple. I don’t know what happened.

copingwith2 10/04/2017

Reading your post was like seeing exactly how I felt and sometimes still feel. But you will wake up every morning and keep going. People will tell you time heals and I am waiting for time to do that for me. I wish I had some amazing answer that he will come around and come back, but I can't tell you that. Maybe there really is someone else out there that will love you with all the same love you feel. Hugs to you and believe me you can get up everyday and you are worth it.

Keyalon 10/04/2017

I know how you're feeling because I'm experiencing the exact same thing right now. It kills me every day knowing she is out having fun while I'm mentally struggling to even want to continue. We had planned such an amazing future and now it's become just a memory. I have virtually no one to talk to the same way I talked with her. Strength to you and I hope you and I can both find a way to push through..

loveaddict 10/05/2017

I'm so sorry you are going through this...I'm going through the exact same thing and I feel your pain...literally. It's tough when you lose the love of your life....I don't know how many buckets of tears I've shed. Unfortunately, I have to keep telling myself whether I like it or not, he's gone and life has to go on. One day at a time...and try to take care of yourself. If you look good, you feel less crappy. Keep busy, really busy, and try to keep your focus on other loved ones in your life who are important to you. Journaling and being mindful also helps me. Stay strong!

scatteredmusician 10/05/2017

So sorry this has happened to you. Some people bounce back quickly, some do not. I was not one who could do that and though it was long ago now, I truly understand. At the time, I thought I would die from it – was afraid I wouldn’t! What I needed most then and didn’t have was some perspective about what a special person I was. I had no appreciation for myself and so when my boyfriend left me, he left me in shreds and without hope. It took me quite a while to recover, but I’m here to tell you that you will. And anyway, what you want is someone who will treasure you for who you are and there is someone out there who will do just that. It took me a while but I found him and am blessed every day to have him in my life. So take heart, get out there and see if you can find joy in doing the everyday things in life and believe you will find your prince. You deserve it. Blessings

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