
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
If it is not OK to do it to an animal, then WHY WHY WHY would it be OK to do it to a person?
Aargh. What you must have went through upsets me a little - the fact that somebody would do that to another person just gives me another point in the "humans do not deserve to go on as a race" column.
Another thing that has been hard is that I feel guilty that my 7 year old son saw most of it happening. I am scared that he could end up becoming an abuser as well.
No. No. NONONONO.
Talk to your son.
Talk to a counseller.
Take your som to a counseller.
That is terrible stuff that happened and both of you probably need help healing.
Someone once said to me, "What if your sister or best friend came to you with the same question; what advice would you have given to them?" It made alot of sence to me because, I have for along time put others well-being way above my own well-being. It is time now, to start taking care of you. We need to start loving ourselves. That is a hard concept for me but, I know it is the right one. When we are put down so much we really start to believe the the terrible stuff, is true. It is called, "stinkin thinkin". (slang) lol You deserve so much better than that!!! I wish you the very best. If you need to talk, I am here for you. If I can do it, anybody can.
GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU SAFE.
Love and Hugs,
Lisa
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