I had gastric bypass surgery in 2012, my husband has been in a depression for the last 2 years. Up until 2 mos ago i had convinced myself that i just didn’t need to give up on him. I felt like when one is weak and wanting to give up that’s when the other picks up the pieces for both. We were/are still living together and he just got an attorney and is wanting a divorce. He doesn’t talk when we are together and recently if im home he’s not. He was upset with me because I told him that I would not use the same attorney as him. I don’t feel thats a good idea for anyone. I’ve started packing and he’s expecting me to out asap. Im not staying in the town we live in. He can have the house. However I’m not leaving everything behind for him either. We have been together for 15 years! Until today i still respected him for being such a wonderful person. I just felt like he’s going thru some sort of midlife crisis. But then..... my attorney send me a dissolution of marriage. It states that im unemployed and that i can work to support myself, he will have full custody of my 17yo son (he adopted) and that i pay his attorney fees and child support. I have been disabled since 2012!! Wtf?!?!
Im so dumbfounded and confused.
It doesn’t help matters that i also have a uti infection, a cracked rib and shingles! I just feel like giving up!
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