Well it's not a long story. I'm 20 years old, we met at the beginning of last year. It was never planned that he would mean this much to me, which is quite obvious seeing as one very rarely plans these type of things. We started talking and realized that we had quite a lot in common, our opinions, likes,dislikes and interests were very much alike. 7 Months after that we started dating, and I had gone through a breakup earlier last year which made me all the more scared. Well ultimately the fear diminished and I started to trust that he would never intentionally hurt me. During Our 7 months of friendship I tried to determine what were factors that could possibly hurt me in his life. The only thing he said was..."my family". I didn't break my head over that cause I mean what could a family really do towards a relationship? Nothing right?.... I wasn't more wrong than that day.

It started quite early in the relationship, we would arrange for dates and his parents would just cancel it last minute or park him in so that he couldn't leave. Then they started badmouthing me and blaming me for the stuff that was different in his life or ways in which he was acting different. I never understood why, I mean I was always respectful and treated them nicely and more than that their son and I were happy together, we made each other happy. I always supported him seeing as it hit him just as hard most of the times. Long story short they started to infilltrate this relationship more and more. One day I arrived at there home afterwhich they yelled at me basically telling me I'm a bad influence and that they don't think we should be together. I didn't allow them to treat me in this way so I just stated my side in a respctful matter. It seemed to work, but never in my wildest dreams did I imagine them dropping him off at my house 2 days later to break up with me. Ofcourse we didn't we tried to keep it secret started talking over other IM's seeing as if they saw he was online they would take his phone and bam another fight. I mean he's also 20 years old...It didn't make sense. 

2 Weeks later still we talk everyday play online based games together so I mean it's going alright. We study together and our varsity opens in 2 weeks...so it's not that big a deal. Well apparently it was cause last night they took his phone once again and he just snapped and just told me he couldn't do this anymore and that he didnt want to but he must. That he still loves me and so forth... well I'm heartbroken. I thought we had something special and unique you know like I finally met someone who understood me. It's just at this stage hard I guess. I'm going to have to see him everyday at varsity seeing as we study the same degree and have the same classes. I just feel so tired and sad... and I'm feeling quite stupid that I believed he always had my back but the moment things got a little rough he just walked out and gave up on everything we shared.

I'm not sure where to start to process this, not sure how to stop thinking of our time together...It just feels like a lot at this stage.