Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Singlemommom 03/20/2017

well divorce is final April6. Thirty two years and all will be over. How did I deal with a narcissists for so long? How come I took the abuse. My family is devastated. He destroyed the family. Why did every time he talked he lied.i feel so lost and I am trying to get use to the new normal. I hate the financial strain. How can he have someone else when he is physically,verbally abusive?

mirandac 03/21/2017

I am sorry for all your hurt and pain, if you are
Depressed thats understandable. I never did
Take any meds i tried a few supplements.

I just keep doing the best i can, therapy and
Divorce care help a lot too and i also attend
Alanon. That Helps heal me from the inside
out.

I was married for 30 years and it has been a long
journey For me, i am post divorce and went no
contact. That helps a lot with the healing, HUGS

There is a great abuse forum on DS if you need
to Post there also

ksparks 03/22/2017

Everyday is a day to heal and find your "NEW NORMAL" You can make it what ever you want. That's what makes free will so great! You got out of an abusive relationship and now you have your power back and can chose your own path. Good luck and keep moving forward

ripped_my_heartout 03/22/2017

Don't wreck your brain trying to figure out a narcissist. We will never understand why they did what they did. They are wired differently. It has taken me sometime but I know realize how toxic the relationship was. The things she was doing to me, I have no interest in ever experiencing again.

I'm getting used to my new normal, and I like it. So peaceful here. Nobody yelling at me, and I'm not up all night worrying about stbx, where she is, who's she with. I am enjoying my freedom. Im doing things I was never allowed to do.

Don't let the narcissistic bastard get to you. Thats how they know they still have one string attached to you. I found therapy and divorce group a big help to me. Detach and be happy. You deserve it after all the years of abuse.
Stay strong. -HUGS-

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